*puts on Moderator hat*
I had an epiphany today while reading a friend's facebook feed. He had posted a meme, gotten some comments on it, and chose to delete it rather than encourage the conversation to continue. His final comment was, "You win, trolls; I am a loser."
I feel that meme-culture has an extremely negative side effect. While expressing ideas in very concise soundbites and often being pithy and amusing, they tend to be
biting rather than simply insightful or humorous. That underhanded dig is part of what makes them effective, but it's also part of what makes any conversation centering around the topic brought up in the meme contentious. People become very defensive, because they feel they've been attacked. In other words, oftentimes memes are inflammatory, and do not serve as a good starting point for a fruitful discussion. I have no doubt that this friend would have gotten more positive feedback on his post if he'd expressed the same ideas in his own words, because he is a naturally encouraging person, and would not have stooped to the underhanded dig that the meme did. Also, his fb friend's list is not composed of trolls - these people are his friends and family and naturally care about him and want what is best for him.
That led me to think about some of the conversations we've had here, and why I have found some of them frustrating lately. I don't dislike differences of opinion; rather the opposite - on a project like this, we *need* people to come up with new and novel ideas, to get the creative juices flowing and to allow people to bounce ideas off one another. We need to be able to take someone else's idea and run with it, and...to feel comfortable doing so. And the Execs need to hear ideas that I don't like, because despite my preferences, that might be the perfect idea for a scene. Sure, some decisions have already been made, and revisiting them wouldn't make a lot of sense or be helpful. But a lot is still wide open, and I don't want this to feel like a closed environment. Even if no one else seems to like an idea or go for it doesn't mean the idea is wrong or stupid. It's just an idea, a suggestion - it may work in our story, it may not, but until we get to that season, that episode...it's not any more correct than others' ideas.
Also, while there is plenty of value in discussing theoretical concepts and ideas, we do need to eventually bring the conversation around to the practical level of suggestions and decision-making. The Hosts do this in every broadcast. They consider (and reject) lots of ideas before settling on the one that they think works best. They are willing to go back on prior decisions if the need arises later, but mostly this project has forward momentum. I feel that it's important to distinguish between our role and theirs. They are the Executive Producers, the decision-makers. We're the creative team, the consultants, bringing our ideas to the table. In a real life scenario, the Execs would likely be much harsher and more stringent about enforcing their own views focused on a money-making standard. The fact that we have enthusiasts of the source material as our Exec Team is an added bonus, and they've been very open to our input, often going along with suggestions made by the podcast listeners (as long as they saw nothing wrong with it). This kindness and courteousness is maybe to be expected in a for-fun podcast situation, but it's certainly not the norm in academic settings, and I doubt it's common in the film industry, either. Academic debate can be extremely heated and personal, which is the type of behavior the Execs don't engage in.
This is one reason I am glad our forums here have a "Rules of Conduct" (pinned in the Main Forum):
https://forums.signumuniversity.org/index.php?threads/rules-of-conduct.2582/
We are meant to be a community. The wider forums are for all members of the Signum and Mythgard community who want a space to 'hang out' outside of the classes and podcasts. We might not have all met in person (though many of us have), but we
have met online, through the podcasts, through the classes, or the Twitch channel, or via LOTRO, etc. The Silm Film group is unique, in that not everyone here is affiliated with other projects in Mythgard/Signum. Sure, some of us live in different countries and will likely never get the chance to meet in person, but we do have the opportunity to get to know one another here. And I think that maybe we should be more intentional about fostering that sense of community in how we interact. This isn't an academic debate, and we don't always have to reach consensus. We're working on this project FOR THE FUN OF IT. That means that while we're invited to be as passionate as we like, we are not encouraged to ruin others' fun or tear anyone down in the process. Sometimes stepping away from the boards for a day is all that is needed to refocus and come at the discussions here with fresh eyes. Other times, it will take additional effort to see the other person's perspective through a new lens, giving them credit for having a valid viewpoint/concern/consideration. But the discussions aren't fun if we resort to badgering or make a point of tearing down others' ideas. So, please, make sure that when expressing ideas here, you are always careful to respect other posters. When re-stating someone else's views, be very careful not to resort to hyperbole and exaggeration and taking the idea to its natural conclusion. Try to suggest an alternative that you would prefer rather than to simply negate someone else's idea.
*takes off Moderator hat*
I realize that I am primarily a poster here, not simply a moderator. I am part of these discussions, not outside of them. But I have noticed a shift in tone in recent months that I find discouraging, and I hope that all posters could try to take the effort to pay attention to that and work to encourage others' participation. Thanks for all of your efforts towards building this community and working together on this project - may you all continue to find enjoyment in it!